I love books. I love to discover them, read them, and share them. When I say "share" I don't mean, however, "loan." I have a policy: I don't borrow books or loan books or check books out from the library. I'm too passionate for any of that. If I want to read a book, then I want that book. I want it as part of my personal library, I want the option to read it again years from now. It might mean something different to me then. I like to look at my library of books and feel a sense of accomplishment (not in a "look how smart I am" type of way). I love to tell people about the book I'm reading and send them an Amazon link later so they can buy it themselves.
Sometimes people will hand me a book and say, "Here, I'm letting you borrow this. You have to read it." I thank them for the reco and politely refuse the book, stating that I'd rather not have the looming dread of needing to get it back to someone sometime soon and keep it unscathed in the process. Why put that type of pressure on such an enjoyable thing?
I don't loan books because in general books are cheap. Buy your own. Put it up on a shelf after you've read it. Own it. Sure when you move it's a pain, because they're oh-so-heavy, but that's a piece of you you're hauling. It's not just paper, it's inside you. It has formed you in some way and become you. Embrace it. Haul it.
Cicero said, "A room without books is like a body without a soul." Read on.